It’s amazing what one can learn from someone who doesn’t even know they’re teaching it. This proves that no matter how you think you are just ploughing through your day, being yourself, that someone, somewhere is watching and learning and adopting things from your actions.
This is the case with the person I never presumed I would never learn a thing from; Sporty Spicey.
She knows nothing but us being Poly. To her, this is our normal. She’s never been in a Poly relationship before (she’s 23, I doubt she’s had too many serious relationships of any kind!)
She came in to our relationship fully knowing what we were all about. So, to her, this is our normal. And with it being her normal, it has taught me that this is our normal. She has no secrets, she has no hidden agenda, she just accepts that this is the way that it is.
From her, whilst this is what I’ve always thought, it’s taken this relationship between her and The Man to empower me to accept this and learn, and now positively know that this is the way, and this is normal.
I probably will never tell her of the healing, enlightenment, lessons and help that her naive way has educated and confirmed my life decision, but I know that deep down no matter where this path leads that I will be eternally grateful for the open, calm and respectful approach she has had into this crazy world of our normal 🙂
Thanks Sporty Spice x